I asked my boyfriend about a girl that I know likes him and he got all defensive. What does it mean?

Basically my boyfriend hung up on me after I asked about a girl I had been noticing talking to him for the second time. The first time he said "i'm really sorry for everything.. you dont have to worry about anyone else" then later I noticed he put a girl on his top friends on myspace and she put his picture on his general interests. It's so obvious she likes him because she writes bulletins about who she likes and how he's taken and everything just adds up. But he got all defensive and said "she never told me that!" and got mad thinking I was accusing him of liking her and saying "do you think i like her?!" and then he hung up. I was told that defensiveness is a sign of guilt. I just feel like if nothing was going on, I wouldn't even have to worry about this. I told him I do trust him but not the other girls, but deep inside it feels like I don't. So does it sound like the end? =/ Nearly everyone I've asked says it sounds totally suspicious. So yeah..

I asked my boyfriend about a girl that I know likes him and he got all defensive. What does it mean?

There are several reasons when he got defensive but here's two. One: Maybe he is guilty..

Or. Two: He just feels like you don't trust him. When you're in a relationship with someone, I think you should always trust that person. I mean, isn't that why you two got together? You trusted each other enough to give each other your feelings/heart, right?

You can either give him some time to see what happens or if you really want to, try and talk to him about it. But don't accuse him of anything because it could have just been an accident, a coincidence or something. Maybe he wasn't paying attention at the time. However, make sure he knows you trust him. It's hurtful in a relationship when you know the person you like doesn't trust you.

...Good luck! If I didn't help, I'm sorry..

I asked my boyfriend about a girl that I know likes him and he got all defensive. What does it mean?

wow....all this b/s because of myspace? are you serious....its ****** myspace, relax

I asked my boyfriend about a girl that I know likes him and he got all defensive. What does it mean?

you need to sit down with him and get things straight, thats what i would do. it sounds a bit weird, i dont think hes cheating or anything but you might wanna ask what he thinks about it, and let him see this situation from your point of view.... :)

I asked my boyfriend about a girl that I know likes him and he got all defensive. What does it mean?

I will only say that you need to let him know that you do trust him. Why she may be in his top friends list dont believe everything you see on the internet. He may have just been clicking away and not playing too much attention.

He did get really defensive, but that may have just been because he thinks you dont trust him. Which can sometimes be more hurtful than being cheated on.

However it doesn't matter how many answers you get here. In the end it depends on the boy. Everyone is different, I think your best thing is to meet up with him and discuss it without getting angry. Tell him why you are worried and if he doesn't care then he isn't worth being with anyway.

I asked my boyfriend about a girl that I know likes him and he got all defensive. What does it mean?

umm depends on how much u like him i guess, thing is all girls want a guy that is taken. let's face it no one wants a loser. so if u think u don't trust the guy, it might be good to end it right away, instead of keeping the relationship barely going and finds out he's cheating on u in the end. lol so good luck

I asked my boyfriend about a girl that I know likes him and he got all defensive. What does it mean?

It sounds suspicious to me! I'd say theres prob something going on, even if its not to serious or on a physical level, and he feels guilty about that. Tell him you would like to know whats going on, if anything, just so things can be cleared up cause this is bothering you. And say you will never get mad over things he has to say, cause they need to be discussed (this always works to coax things out, even if you know youll get mad anyway, try to keep your kool)