MYSPACE AND MY BF's PAST?

me and my bf have been going out for about more than 7 months now and in his myspace friend's list is a girl he used to like,,,,when i went to her page i saw comments from him and the worst part is that i saw about three pictures of him and her together! it's really disturbing me and i want to tell him to delete those comments and everything about her,,,,he told me that was the past and i get his point of view but he's with me now,,,,,why keep those? even pictures? am i pushing too hard? i just want to tell him to just delete those and never talk to her again. becasuse i don't have any pictures of my ex or other guys i used to like,,,, when the relationship ends, i get rid of everything. why still keep them? they mean nothing anyway,,,,,help.

MYSPACE AND MY BF's PAST?

Well, sometimes in life, you'll find people who remain friends with their Ex-s. I am one of those! See, the person you meet that youoriginally like tends to be someone you at least get along with on a friendship level. Alot of relationships would have been better off being left that way!

The two of you are just different. Some people find a way to hold a grudge against an Ex just so they don't have to see them again... the pain is awful! Then there are others who can forgive, but not for get that that is a person they never want to experience that horrible moment again with, but hey, they actually are a pretty cool person to hang out with, or talk to. Having a female friend, is the best thing I think a man can do, and vice versa. It will give him someone he's already been in a relationship with, or just someone of the opposite sex to maybe help him find a way to communicate with you, or understand you better.

Having a jealousy about this girl could do more damage than good. Just brush it off, and realize that if he's not screwing around with her, it's a good thing for him to have a female to talk to so he can rationalize better about how he's dealing with his issues with you. If you decided to take the low road instead, and become overbearing, and tell him to delete all that stuff, he would find that majorly unattractive about you! It could make him wonder why you would act like that! It's just not very becoming of you! It's not a quality guys really look for in a woman! Be self-confident %26amp; think... well, he isn't with her any more, so there must be something he doesn't like about her! Don't give him something not to like about you!

Good luck!

MYSPACE AND MY BF's PAST?

well you cant control what pictures that girl has on her page .. As long as nuthing shaddy is going on id say its fine. Everyone writes **** on peoples myspace pages. but since you have been with him for 7 months maybe I nice email to this girl to take the pics down of your bf would be ok.. or have him do it. regardless there is a right way to go about this. and you have a right after 7 months of dating the guy

MYSPACE AND MY BF's PAST?

Yeah if she has pictures of them two up on myspace then she still likes him. He is still having contact with her and that is not a good sign. If he doesnt comply I would definitely be concerned because he should care more about what you guys are doing in the presnt and not what they had together.

MYSPACE AND MY BF's PAST?

Do you trust your bf? If so then you shouldn't worry about that just like you said its in the past so you shouldn't worry about those things. But if you don't trust him deep inside then why go out with him.

MYSPACE AND MY BF's PAST?

I actually met my bf on myspace. Eventually we both decided to delete our myspace accounts because it was creating unnecessary stress and worry for both us. We got tired of asking each other, "who is this friend" and "why did you leave him/her that comment" or "why are still friends with him/her." It got really old really fast and we both thought that if we are together and committed, what do we really need myspace for any way. We deleted them and it felt good not having to deal with childish myspace drama. See if he'd be willing to get rid of it altogether. And if nothing else delete her as a friend. I know it sounds harsh, but if he's with you he needs to let go of other women. I'm sure he expects the same of you. Otherwise, you may have to just deal with it.