Ex and myspace????

I'm a mom of an 18 month old %26amp; her father %26amp; I haven't been on good terms lately. I left him in Dec. 2005 %26amp; we have been on %26amp; off again 4 the past 9 mos. I know it's finally time 2 move on %26amp; accept the fact that we just can't make it work. In the time we weren't together he has had other girlfriends. Which I guess I had 2 except b/c we weren't together. He failed 2 tell me while he was in a relationship w/this girl he was bringin this girl around my daughter. I didn't like the idea of him bringing different girls around my daughter cuz I believe it isn't right for her to experience that type of thing. Same goes for me if I'm dating. I know all this from experience in my own life w/my mother. Now to my question, Do you all think that his ex-girlfriend should have pictures of my daughter on her myspace? I have asked my ex to tell 2 remove them but he said he gave her permission 2 post them. I've written her emails %26amp; she doesn't take them down. What should I do???

Ex and myspace????

Now, first of all, i dont think its her place to put those pictures up on myspace eventhough he gave her permission to. Out of total respect, she should of refused towards that action completely. Now for those pictures to be put up would be the same as if he were to put them up so there's no difference. Those pictures on her myspace page dont justify anything because she's not the mother. She'll eventally take them down when she realizes she has no power over your daughter and no family ties. If they dont see eachother anymore or if something happens between the girlfriend and him, then those pictures are definitely coming down one way or another. He's that little girls family not the girlfriend .... so keep in mind also that she has no claimant towards your daughter and nothing to prove in relation so you stand on top because you have everything to prove that your daughter is your own. It is also unhealthy for him to bring all types of woman around his daughter because it leaves her confused about who her birth mother is .... and that is very unhealthy and twisted. His daughter will grow up asking unnecessary questions that he could of avoided years ago by keeping her distant from his dating partners. Keep your daughter close to you if nothing else works but dont deny him to see her. Increase the time between you and your daughter and build that relationship so its branded in her mind that you are her mother and only mother. There no way for you to make her take those pictures down because she has that free will to do what ever she wants. Overpower that with time spent with your daughter, your daughter will then realize at such a young age that no other woman can take the place of her birth mother. Remember that you will always be the foundation of your daughters life. No one can replace that.

Ex and myspace????

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Ex and myspace????

She has no business posting photos of your daughter or her myspace account. None.

Ex and myspace????

No I don't think its right, who does she think she is? I mean if she was like the step mother of this child for years and such then sure she should be able to, but as of right now and your daughter being very young, I think you should message her and say that you would kindly appreciate it if she removed your daughter's picture. If she had any respect whatsoever then she will do it. Sometimes if you want something done you gotta do it yourself, don't rely on your ex to do anything. Goodluck girl!

Ex and myspace????

contact myspace and tell them you are the mother of that child and you don't want some strange women posting picturwes of your child on her myspace...they will take them down...

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BEAT HER UP!!! SHE DOESNT NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO POST PIC. OF YOUR DAUGHTER! I DONT CARE IF UR EX SAID SHE COULD OR IF U WANNA HANDLE IT LIKE AN ADULT YOU CAN TALK TO HER OR TRY 2 ASK HER OTHER WISE MOVE AWAY FROM YOUR EX AND FORBID YOUR EX TO SEE HER SINCE HE WANNA DO SOMETHING BEHIND YO BACK

Ex and myspace????

HELL NO!!! You should beat him and her down. My baby's father tried that when mine was in the 5th grade (He's 20 now). He wanted to bring his wife to the graduation and she was upset that I said no. I called her up. The conversation is better left not repeated but you get the idea. Don't talk to him TALK TO HER!!! Not in an e-mail. Face to face. Be there when she takes them down.

Good luck.

Ex and myspace????

I agree with ghostin. Although i've never used MySpace, I would consider contacting them and explain the situation. Hopefully they'll be kind enough to take the type of action that you're looking for since obviously reasoning with your ex and his woman is getting you no where.

Ex and myspace????

Heck no it's not right, Ooh girl!! !! Your ex is a jerk!!! Sorry, And good luck!!!

Ex and myspace????

You should just be happy and FLATTER that someone has a certain amount of love for your daughter. What is the harm of her having the picture posted? Is she prosituting your daughter online, or doing anything illegal with them? If not then are you just controlling and self-fish? I understand your point but at likes your daughter enough to do that.........

Ex and myspace????

I'd contact myspace.com as well. They should be able to take the pictures down. Sounds like she is keeping them up to just irritate you! Don't let her get to you!

Ex and myspace????

How did you come into her myspace page with your daughter's pictures on it... Where you searching for her on the Internet. They say, when you look for things that's how you end up with your feelings hurt.. Please stop making a fool out of yourself. Calling her, sending e-mails to her myspace. That's kind of creepy.. Look do yourself a favor and know that for as long as you live women are going to exist in this world to.. A child is a child and in your case we talking about a pre-toddler. There's nothing wrong with a baby being around dad and his friends.. Just as long as he's taking care of her. And not disrespecting her.. Then everything should be alright.

Good luck..........

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oh hell no girl u betta do something cuz that aint her child if u didn't give her permission and he did but eventhough thats his ex which doesnt mean nuttin he shouldnt be putting pics of his child especially if ur not the mother u need to talk to him and fix that ....cuz that is very disrespectful to u and ur child

Ex and myspace????

Well you have already tried the adult way by talking to your ex and his ex. Now I would contact myspace and let them know the situation. Be sure to have her "contact name" so they will know where to look. Just go to www.myspace.com and at the very bottom click on contact myspace. Good luck!

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No, its not right to have your daughters pics on her my space, but the fact that he stuck up for her, and said he would get You trouble if you confronted her, makes me think that he may still be with her, or that he may still have feelings for her. You should let both of them go and concentrate on your daughter. Put your own pics up and let your girl be your focus point. You can only control how you raise your child and instill good values and morales within her as much as you can. As your child gets older, she will realize whats right and wrong, and she will see other people for who they really are. Good Luck!

Ex and myspace????

I would file a complaint on myspace that she has your daughters pics on there and you don't want all the pervs out there looking at them.