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why are girl s so confusing and fickle? met this girl on match. talked for a few weeks on there, i gave her my myspace. we got busy and didnt talk for a week or so, then which she sent me a msg on myspace and requested me as a friend. i accepted and we exchanged about 30 emails on there. we both said we enjoyed talking to each other. i said we should meet up. in which she brought up 3 other time, one of which was agreeing we should meet up, then few days later, i asked what she is doing next week. .. she says, "hanging out with u silly." and then she brings it up again to make arrangements on when / where. we decide on a place/day..she lives 30 mins away and i even said "sure ill go to ur city" when she said she was having car trouble. the noon of the day we were suppose to meet, she txts me saying she is about to get a tooth pulled, and is really sorry cant make it, and asks if we can reschedule. i say yeah of course, and she txts back with, o good i was hoping ud say that.

dont hear

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shes probably scared that your an online predator.

theres really so many of them out there.

its hard to tell.

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Find another girl, this one is making you waste your time...!!

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she seems like shes playing some retarded lame version of hard to get. just act a little tougher.

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i think she just wants to talk to u on the phone. other than that i think shes scared to meet u in person. go find someone in ur town or whatever and drop her. shes just playing games.

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I have no idea what she is doing to you! I am a girl and I have never pulled this crap.

If you get tired of it, just pull away.. Let her come to you. She is being ridiculous!! These games aren't worth it.

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she is wondering the same thing about you. just as you are trying to figure her out, she is trying to figure you out. casually invite her to the movies but dont make a big deal out of it.

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1) maybe you're not the only guy she is being matched with, 2) maybe her excuse is really valid, 3) she is very busy that's why she doesn't txt you back(which is unlikely, no?) 4) maybe she is currently thinking hard if she will go through with it or not

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umm. SHE LIKES YOU!! if she didnt then Why would she contact you and wanna chat with you all the time? lol, but, yeah, id think shed really like it if you'd ask her out to the movies. goodluck and hope i helped!

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She is either really busy or most likely, she's playing hard to get.

Um, If this ticket business is now, then invite her. If it about in the next week or next 2 weeks or just days. Don't call her. Let her call you and then you start talking about the plans.

If she does not call, you've got your answer.

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Just because this one girl is confusing and fickle doesn't mean all girls are confusing and fickle. I've dated guys who are complete idiots but I don't jump to the conclusion that this means all men are complete idiots as well.

Sorry, I know this didn't answer your question, but it had to be said.

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Lol... girls are confusing when they don't know who they are.... therefore they don't know who the guy wants them to be.

I think the best way to cut through this Gordion Knot of what the hell... is to simply be direct. Say: Hey, I enjoy talking to you and I am really excited to meet you. Do you feel the same way?

Maybe she is insecure about herself.... maybe she lied about something on her match.com page.... I can't say for sure.

I don't think it's hopeless because it's obvious she is interested in you - maybe she just needs you to be more direct so she can stop over analyzing everything that goes on. ;)

We get better in a few years usually. ;)

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I think you should invite her, I think she's only teasing you and waiting for you to make a move first... women are hard to understand even I don't understand me sometimes... if she says no or if she arranges another excuse just forget about her and look for another girl...

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Sounds to me like something may have gone wrong with her phone. About half the time my husband and I don't get each others texts. Give her the benefit of the doubt for now. It really sounds like it's still going good to me. The tickets don't sound at all desperate.

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sorry to burst your bubble but i don't think she is all that interested in you. However, if you are an optimistic then maybe because she is getting old feet. Maybe she likes you a lot and is scare to meet you, afraid that you might not find her as attractive in person... Either way, i think you should take it slow and let her make the arrangement to meet up and see if she will follow through.

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Are you serious??? You do not know if a girl is "in to you" by anything but a face to face encounter. No web stuff - no text messages - no missed appointments ==== none of that stuff is a determination of compatibility. All the on-line stuff does is expose you to more potential dates. My advise is KEEP looking and stop trying to land a fish that probably is not worth landing! Take a friend to the movies - I bet you'll have more fun!

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well in this day in age meeting on the Internet is not the best thing for all you know she could be like 30 years old and ugly and maybe she didn't show because she didn't know if u for real or not and maybe she is ignoring you because she is afraid of what you r and doesn't want to take a chance of getting hurt like that and i don't think movies would be the right thing not until you meet face to face

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well i think she likes and that maybe why she sometimes tel you she can't come or do the things you guys planned to do is beacause maybe she gets nervous and stuff and thats why mmaybe she always tell you she can't see or you know and i think you should invite her to the movies and tell her she can't back out again ok hoped i helped good luck

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well it sounds like she likes you but is afraid that u wont live up to her expect ions.girls have a way of thinking a guy is soooo great and perfetc ect. but when they r about to meat up with u they think "he might not be exactly what i want" so they blow u off. OR........ she really could have had a flat tire or tooth thing. she might have really told the truth. but maybe not. so i say ask her out to see that movie. she might say yes. you never know. ^^

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sorry dude it sounds like you got conned she is most likely some young girl playing on her mom's match account and didn't want to let you know so she'll keep giving you excuses as long as you'll let her

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Hello guy , frankly speaking , i don't think she likes you . my answer as below

1, She should cherish every meet of yours , despite of her personal thing , and you know what is promise , one should try best to realize it since made promise . she breaked her promise so easily , means that she made this promise so easily , actually she never care this promise !

2) a compomise linked relationship of two people , she don't care this promise means she never pay attention to this peason , withal , she breaked her promise not one time ,yes ?

3) she always chat with you by phone , but not means she likes you , ordinary friends can to do this , because of alone .