I came across a girl that I went to school with on myspace a few months ago and shortly thereafter I became interested in her. She is the type who fills out all of those myspace surveys and from what I gather from them she is very single. So over the last couple of months I have been trying to find a way to get together with her. So after reading a survey of hers she mentioned being a Dodgers fan and my friend happened to have extra tickets to a game next week. So I messaged her and told her that my friend had some extra tickets and I was checking if she wanted to buy some. She got excited and said she would buy a couple of them. (I haven't the slightest idea who she's taking).
Anyway, she gave me her number and I called her yesterday and she said she would come by my house on Friday afternoon to pick them up. So I'm kind of nervous about her coming by because I'm pretty sure Im crushing on her now.
Any suggestions on how to ease the process and make a good impression?
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Good for you :D
go and take her to the game
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go for her
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She's coming to pick up the tickets and that's it. The process is very simple actually. But I assume you want to chat her up a little. Since she loves the Dodgers, why not chat about that with her? Ask her if she has a jersey, who her favorite player is, how long she's been a fan, maybe even slip in the question about who she's going with. Just make sure you let her go when she needs to, or if she doesn't seem that interested in talking to you. Smile a lot, thank her for coming by, and tell her to call you and let you know how it went. (She probably won't, but it's a nice gesture.) Then send her a comment and ask her about it later.
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Just be yourself and take her to the game man. She seems like a nice girl.
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First of all...you should have bought the tickets from your friend and told her you had an extra ticket and ask her if she would like to go with you!!!!
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Well most people would say be yourself, but after many tries with that i have not succeeded in any way.
So heres a tip- Dont become nervous and try to hard a girl never likes that.
Also, you could be a gentlemen and just make her feel comfortable.
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Just be totally honest. Tell her you want to go on a date with her. That's it. Don't be overly flirty to try to make her figure it out.
Not too tough, huh? The most direct way is always the best.
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just follow these instructions: shoot yo shot BOYYYYYY!!!!
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tell her how you feel, then offer to buy her a ticket if she will go with you.
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Don't start any crazy moves on her just act natural and give her the tickets after meeting with a couple of times then start talking
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duude.
you should have told her you wanted to take her in the message or something.
it would have been less awkward.
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you should go for it if you dont then youll never know what you missed out on whats the worst that could happen good luck! oh yeah and answer my latest question
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OKAY....first of all...instead of asking her if she wanted to buy the tickets...you should have said that YOU had an extra ticket and wanted to know if she would like to go with you. Would have been an awesome first date...
But since you didn't and you are nervous about her coming to your house to pick up tickets (and she might be taking another guy by the way...since you didn't ask her to go with you...) Just be your self....when she comes to the door, invite her in. Put the tickets in your bedroom so you have to get them while she waits in the living room. Make small talk ask her how she's been...and IF you are a dodgers fan as well...talk about that so that she sees you guys have the a same interest (thats always a good way to flirt)...anyway just remember to be yourself!!
Hope this helps!
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Hi
Just be friendly and say how nice it has been corresponding with her and has been good to catch up; ask her a couple of things youhave had conversations about on myspace.
Give her the tickets; then you could say if you happen to come across any tickets again you can e-mail her if she wants. Leave it at that, then when you get another couple of tickets contact her andask her if she'd like to go with you as the game looks good with the particular opposition team!
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Just be yourself, you sound like a good guy. Good Luck!
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go easy on the hot dogs. burping is a big turnoff
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Aww you're cute. I agree with the other answer tell her to call you to see how the game went.
Or as she's leaving say. "Hey maybe we can get together sometime and talk about how the game went." Look at her reaction, if it's good then go for it.
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First of all i think that you should of asked her out instead of selling the tickets to her.... maybe its not too late
i think that you should look nice but not too nice.. right... so you shouldn't wear a tie or anything like that... Oh and when she gets there, act like your on your way out, and ask her if she wants to accompany you to lunch or dinner or an ice cream or something. So yea try to check if shes willing to hang out. Cus what if she still has her car on and she is just dropping by to pick up the tickets? what are you gana tell her there you know? you should really like do something like of a surprise to her.
But yea you should of told her how you felt!!! or you still can!
And you should of invited her to the game !!!
Remember to be yourself... Don't ever try to be someone you are not.
Oh When she goes over... if she goes into your house make sure it smell good (you should try the Febreze, it smells great i love it!) oh well yea...also makes sure that everything is nice and clean. And on the living room table, you should put some snacks for her and a drink just in case.
Well Good Luck!!!
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It's true she is planning to just come by and pick up the tickets. However, that doen't mean you can't strike up a good conversation with her. When she comes over offer her some food/drinks and ask her if she'd like to sit down. Talk about stuff that you know she's interested in and keep her visit brief. Things like this take time and maybe you guys can get a friendship going that can always lead to more. Good luck!
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When she comes by to get the game tickets just casually start talking about sex. Then ask her which ones of the dodger players she would choose to have sex with. If she chooses more than 2 or 3 of the players you should act surprised and a little hurt. This should ease the process and and make a good impression on her.
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