Thursday, December 24, 2009

How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

i asked a question about it yesterday. this black girl from the u.s contacted me on myspace months ago with a friend request which i accepted, she wanted to talk on messenger so she added me.



the first conversation i had with her was nonsensical she kept talking about the subject of race and that i had mixed ethnicity that i probablly didnt no about.



i told her infact no i hadnt, i told her i was white and a french nationality.



i told her i had no ethnicity whatsoever, none in my bloodline i new of on my dads side or my mums side.



she continued on her verbal crap and nonsensical suggestions so i blocked her.



but now she keeps contacting me through different ids. messaging me about this topic of race and the possibility of a ' mixed ' background.



i swear if she doesnt give it up i will make it my buisiness to track her like an animal.



she has be extremely annoyed, she wont give up trying to contact me or reach me.



she even uses a forum im a member of where you have user names



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

hey!!!!!!!!!!!! I'd be very interested to know if it's the same nutcase that's been doing it to me (seriously)... drove me nuts and in the end I got very very nasty...



I hope you don't think I'm being racist...because I'm really really not, but there is a group of black girls (not collectively) who do this sort of stuff (especially on myspace) for kicks.



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

hey don't be racist



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

looks like you've got a stalker i guess you should change your ID or get a new account



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

a)Report it to Yahoo or whoever the websites are



b)Go off on her if you must



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

tell her you are going to contact the IM provider and myspace about harassment and do so. This is illegal. They will cancel her accounts.



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

If she's american (like me) and is defaming your charachter, you have legal rights against her. You can sue, and win, for 'defamation of charachter'. Warn her once, publicly, in all the forums and locations she is bothering you. Find her and follow through. Our embassy there should be able to help you more. I've had it happen to me twice, and always by a black girl. Curious...



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

I'd report her, and do what ever you can to get rid of her...



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

Why not post her name and details on the net and reveal her



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

I don't think any normal person would think that there's something wrong with having a different racial background in any way (I am bi-racial myself), but just don't argue with her about it, she's making assumptions, nobody can't really know where anybody elses forefathers, or anybody's own forefathers come from.



Block her anywhere that is possible, tell her that you're really not interested in talking about this subject because she can't possiby know where you may or may not originate from, tell her that she's buggin' you and she needs to leave you alone and mind her own business and not talk s*** about something that she knows nothing about!



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

My question in response to your question is: Why did you feel the need to post a question identifying the race of the person involved? Bad manners and stupidity are not confined to any one race. You say she continues to contact you under different IDs. Don't you have to accept those IDs before she can contact you? Sounds as if you need to be a little more choosy who you accept. MySpace, as with other websites, is full of people who have nothing to do but sit at a computer. I might suggest that you totally ignore her. No matter what she says, just delete it. She is getting her kicks off of your responses. If you refuse to play her game she'll soon tire and move on. Even if it takes a few weeks or months - it'll be worth it. Believe me, she won't feed her needs by continuing to waste time on someone who won't respond to her. Just don't let her goad you into responding to what she says or what others say as a result of her posts. She'll soon become a dinosaur in the annals of time.



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

Be careful who you add. Be thankful it wasn't some serial killer. Just ignore her.



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

If you find it impossible to ignore her, change accounts. Those are your only options; you cannot "track her like an animal."



I think the really fantastic thing about typing questions and answers instead of saying them aloud is that a person has time to EDIT. Really, no matter how angry you are, there is no need to mention the fact that you are "pure," which you say is possible but trust me isn't, and the fact that she is black. No wonder she's out to get you--you angered someone as immature as you, and now you're suffering for it.



How do i handle this black girl who won't leave me alone- help me handle it before explode ?

I could have sworn I saw a question similiar to this a few weeks ago.



Not this crap again.

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