How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

So there is this girl that my bf has been friends w/ for a couple of years now and when we started dating I went off to college for a while and I didn't mind them hanging out together because they were "just friends" one day I left him a comment on myspace and noticed that every time I worte she commented with "why don't you call me back babe". When I got back I moved in w/ him and she'd text him and when ever he mentioned me she'd stop. I noticed the same thing on his myspace comments w/ every other girl he dated she was the same way. So i snooped through his messages and they had some pretty dirty ones from before we even met... but they weren't JUST FRIENDS. Then he lied about it for 6 months til I told him i snooped. Then he freaked out and the truth kept coming out little by little. We got a phone plan together and he changed his # she got it from his friend and she's texting him. HELLO HE HASN'T TALKED TO YOU IN 3 MONTHS he's in a relationship

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Oh you are to cute. I am very curious how this is going to turn out, I have been reading the last few questions about this and am very intreaged now. It's kinda like watching my soap operas, lol no effense, I think life is more like it then people think.

As far as what to do. Like everybody else is saying kill her with kindness *don't worry it's ok to grin evilly when you say the kill part in that sentence*. Not sure about asking her to hang out though, you don't want her to think she can get in good with you so she will be around HIM more and have more of an opportunity to get dirt *real or madeup* on you. She might try to use that aginst you and try to get closer to you to get closer to him if you know what I mean. Most likely she is going to try to do the same thing with you, don't like this bother you, I know if I was in your shoes I would be steaming with anger and my face would be red wanting to pounce on her and teach her she needs to learn to mind her own, but lets be mature about this haha ;) ....

Honestly be very cautious and try to observe EVERYTHING... see how your fiance and her act around each other, if there is anything under the scense going on here. Don't be overly ancious though because you might get the jump on something thinking it was wrong, but you are just in overdrive so you take it over preportion. I know lots to think about, but I'm sure you will do fine. Do stay close to him, but not overly needy, don't make her think that he is with you because you are forcing him to be and smothering him with to much affection and needyness. We all know that your in a normal relationship and just show her that it is a STRONG relationship and that he loves you.

I think that is a good idea to dress up, but don't go over the top like it looks like you over did it for this meeting, she will know and your fiance will know also. She doesn't know your going to be there so you have the jump. If for some reason she doesn't seem to 'shocked' that your there, then your fiance is deffinetly talking to her and giving her the 'heads up' meaning she might be prepared for you as well. Keep an eye out for her first impression. If she is calm and cool with it then there might be some more behind the scense to think about.

I wish you all the luck and please keep us updated and let us know how it went. Let us know any signs or things that happened so we can help determine certain meanings. Sometimes it's hard to figure it out when it's infront of you and all happening so fast. Let us know and Good luck!!!

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Haha..if she is not expecting you then that will be freakin hilarious....i would beat her @ss but that's just me.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

well, if it was me, i'd 'accidentally' drop something in her drink, but you don't wanna join me in hell, few decades later.

do something very childish, like pin (i mean tape) a note on her back.. 'kick me' or 'i'm a sl*t' or 'i go after your bf' or...

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

beat her up....you'll get some aggression out. just kidding. my guess is that when she sees you, she'll leave....just a hunch but that's what happened with this girl that wouldn't leave my fiance alone when we first got together. as soon as she saw me, she knew i was about to kick her a$$ and hopefully knock it into her!so she left

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Um u need to be urself. Don't play any childish games. If ur man loves u then u have no reason to play these games.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Wow! You really hate punctuation!

Why are you getting caught up in this?

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

I suggest you be the best person you can be.

By being a snotty grouch to her you will likely reinforce her flirting, since she thinks you have an unhappy husband looking for attention.

Be the wife any man would be proud of to have on his arm.

EDIT sorry fiance, not husband.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

irksome.... first off... obviously i'm not sure that the guilt is hers...your man was playing around and have cake and frosting for awhile... i mean it was and is his place to say....NO. and NO thank you i have no need to talk to you anymore thank you...

but since it seems you like drama.... i guess if you must meet her you must but be prepared. Thats gonna be CRAZY!! lol take a video camera with you so we can watch... i'm interested in knowing how it went!

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Kill her with kindness Girlfriend and DO NOT over-do it with your boyfriend, that will make you look desperate and "Obvious"....you want to go for "subtle"........

Look your sexiest too.....wear hot shoes and get a french manicure and tossle the hair a bit.....look messy/sexy.....

Good luck girl!!!

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Kill her with Kindness... that is the worse.. People tend to get more outraged when they are nice and there is a issue... excellent! i love this plan! Wish I was there to see it!

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

well women are desperate...and your fiance is being way too nice to her...tell him not to be in touch with her because she is a devil...

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Before going to this meting ask your boyfriend to put her in her place, right there in front of you. And when you see her act with class, something she obviously has none. The attitude your bf takes in front of you will give you the place you deserve and show that girl that she's out of his life.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

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I would say just tell her to knock it off but that will only add fuel to her fire. The minute she sees your insecure, in her eyes, the fight is over and she wins.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Kill her with kindness...don't be a b*tch, she will think that you are jealous of her. Offer her a girl's day out, like pedicures or something. Let her think that you want to befriend her and that will slow her down because then she will be occupied about you and not him. I am not saying be her bestfriend but let her know that you exist in your man's life and you are the only woman. You may get a new friend out of if.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Make it obvious he is yours kiss him but stare at her as you do it make sure to mention how lucky you are that he wants to Marry you that you are both so lucky to find the Right person and then wish her the same luck SOMEDAY.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

I think you should show her she doesn't bother you even though she does. Don't let her see it. Be affectionate with your BF but don't go over the top clingy. Try to be as relaxed as you can.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Oh, it would be so satisfying (for a while) to give her a good 'biff' on the head!! but i so TOTALLY AGREE with Nickay....

Be so sweet and kind and that will REALLY p.ss her off. Remember she is NOTHING, so why get het up in front of her. if you make a scene, she will know you are bothered about her. Don't give her the satisfaction.

Look a million dollars and have a good night.

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

Kill her with kindness and make sure you look good. you seem to be a little insecure about the whole thing, dont let it show, be confident and yes, affectionate, he is yours and she should know that. Dont over do it, it would be too obvious. I hope your man didnt tell her you read all the old stuff, because she would see straight through your act. good luck

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

be exceptionally mature.. make her think you're not threatened at all... this will show her how much confidence you have in yourself and ur relationship... and he will love you more for that...

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

been there

done that

kill her with kindness

good luck

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

O this will be fun :-)

Dont hang all over him and be overly affectionate becuz that will make you seem insecure but make sure you pay him attention and make it clear that you two are happy together also you want to be polite but not friendly

ex. Smile and shake hands but dont laugh when she's trying to be funny, instead politely smile and acknowledge the fact that she tried

Dress to impress, make sure she understnads she is dealing with a 10+ and not a mere 5 as she will be sizing you up for competition

Make "We" statements

ex. Yea "We" love that movie too; "We" went there last week; "We" love that too but he took me to this other place instead etc....

Also play with him, make him laugh, if she see's how much fun he has with you, she will feel like she has no real place in his life and will def get the hint

The point is women threaten eachother in-directly whereas men are more direct, she will read up on the indirect hints clearer and see right past the direct hints, the goal is to mentally psyche her out she sounds like she's into mind games so i say play them with her, he wont notice a thing lol

women are so cool lol so definately keep these things and mind and she will def back off :-)

Good Luck Sister :-)

How to ttreat the girl that keeps flirting w/ my fiance! I GET to meet her in person tonight?

I VOTE KILL HER WITH KINDNESS AND LOVE HIM UP RUB HIM KISS HIM CARESS HIM LET HER WATCH YOU AND EAT IT UP ..... WOMAN HATE TO BE REMINDED THAT THE PERSON THEY WANT IS TAKEN.... AND MOST OF ALL THAT THE WOMAN THAT HAS HIM IS SOO SOO SWEET!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!