Just want other men/women's opinions on this because I'm not sure if I'm overreacting.
While looking at my boyfriend of almost two years' myspace account, I noticed this girl from out of state had made several comments on his photos. I was curious about her, so I looked at her page. He had made comments about her that were, to me, flirting...."nice legs!" and "great body," and "yum, you look sexy." I was surprised and hurt by this and asked him about it. He became defensive and said she was someone he'd met online years ago and they just talk, that she was having a bad time and he wanted to "boost her self-esteem."
I think it's inappropriate and he said he'd stop, yet I see she is still commenting on his page and now has hers set to "private." Comments, advice, experiences would be appreciated.
Thanks.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
He's being an ***. He shouldn't be saying things like that. Did you see if his status said single?
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
dump not work trouble
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
straight up unacceptable
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Dump him
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Youre not overreacting. Its totallly inappropriate.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
He pretty much cheated on you in my opinion. It's up to you what you do with that.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
****!
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Hell no. That jerk! I don't know what to tell you but you need to let him no that, thats messed up and that it hurts you. You should not put up with that. He needs to respect you!
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
He is lying to you!!!
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
your bf is an online predator, like those dudes i saw on 20/20
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
CONFRONT THAT FOOL!!! Then break up with him, or make him jealous, lmao
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Sounds very suspicous. That's not appropriate behavior for being in a relationship. You have reason for concern.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
you are in no way overracting. if he had any respect for your feelings, he wouldn't have allowed this to happen without consulting you first and that's no way to "boost self-esteem" any way, that's a way to say, "have sex w/ me", and you are not overreacting. give him a good kick from me!
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
you're not married to the guy, are you?
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
That is definitely not right. Even a little friendly flirting is still flirting. Who's to say if that havent already had cyber sex? Who's to say they wouldnt hook up if she wasnt out of state.
The fact that he's telling another girl she is sexy, says somethhing about this guy. I'll leave it to you to figure that out
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Dump him,he told her to put her page private.If he cant respect ur wishes,he dont deserve you.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Cheating or going to,, inappropriate too.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
He's still flirting. Do a Lorena Bobbit on his mouse.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
NIce Legs and Great Body? omg thats otally crossing the line. yeah rite "boosting her self-esteem" you don't see other guys telling that to girl just to "boost thier self esteem" hes stupid if he thinks youre gonna believe that, and tolerate that..... no ur not over reacting....
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
He raised her self esteem..while lowering yours.. nice guy. he has apparantly disregarded your wishes. but that is the good thing about boyfriends.. you do not have to shell out money to divorce them. you can just leave. i would look into that if i were you.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
That is unacceptable in a relationship. Who is to say that she might not try to connect with him in person sometime. There are other ways of encouraging someone with low self esteem.he crossed the line in my opinion and wouldn't like it if the situation was reversed. Move on.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
First off: HE DIDNT PRETTY MUCH CHEAT ON YOU, like that person commented. Inappropriate? Yes. But don't you think that men and women fantasize about other people besides their partner? I would imagine most do during sex. ASk him to stop. Did he accuse you of digging through his webpages LOOKING for something to get on him?
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
He is being innapropriate. since you have talked to him before, confront him again about the situation. tell him how it makes you feel, tell him you really don't appreciate the things that he is doing, and if he becomes offensive, give hyim another chance or dump him, it's totally up to you
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Something could happen, and you would just end up getting hurt!
It could just be flirting, nothing more. But it could be more than that.The comments obviously bother you, so get rid of him before the situation gets out of hand. It seems you don't trust him, he has given you a reason not to!
My advice - get rid of him.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
so he likes to appreciate a pretty female..that does not mean he loves you less...women are like oil paintings..they are there to be admired and yes flirted with, as long as all is in control,....so you ought to enjoy any comments given to yourself...
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
If this is really a worry talk to him and if he persists take a break from him. If you have any future together it will work out if not move on....!
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Hmm, you can delete his page if you want.. : )
You can send his URL to Tom, or get his e-mail and password when hes drunk if he legal lol and delete it
OR
simply ''DUMP'' him
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
He shouldn't do that to you!! That's basically cheating and I'm sure you deserve better. If he can't stop talking to her, then tell him it's over!
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
Don't snoop on his or her page. It'll only cause you heartache. When u confront him about it, u'll only push him to be more careful about this because he knows you're watching.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
well. his very disrespectful towards you. his still going to continue doing it, no matter whatever you say to him. give him more space to himself,and act like you don't even care about him. he will start to look for you more then you can ever imagine.
Boyfriend on myspace flirting with single woman.....?
He is NARCISSITIC!!!!!
He needs to keep his supply in demand!
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